Hi bn999 and all...thanks for the guidance to the special way to hook up the ublox utility...
Firstly .... Success with the dipole! .... Special key ingredient seems to have been patience...while fiddling with the ublox for some time (about 45mins)...the Hacc trended down to a stable 3D fix value ... Continuing to bounce around 1.x m ....
Secondly and most importantly...I unplugged all and battery connected and got solid blue in about 25sec....
...the other special ingredient might include the fact that I ordered $50 worth of antennas over night ... Mmm
... So now onto setting up the BT link and then actually trying to get a device controllable airborne.